Tonight I am contemplative.
Not a really happy place to be but I am trying to find peace in the midst of it anyhow.
What do I know right now
You can't make someone stop smoking even when it is a slow death that is going to hurt everyone around you
You can't make someone lose weight even when it is the same result as the smoking
You can't make a cat stop meowing when she has something she needs to say even when you explain to her that you don't understand and she is making you crazy
You can't make someone care about themselves even when you want it very badly.
So, what is it that you can do?
Any suggestions???? I know you are out there. I hear you breathing sometimes.......